Who we are
About Findom Finder: Findoms and Subs Meet Here
Where findommes take control and the paypigs, finsubs and money slaves who serve them hand it over.
Built for one thing: findom
Findom Finder is a findom site for findommes and the subs who serve them. It has been online since 2022, and its promise is the same today as it was then: Findoms & Subs Meet Here.
Findom is a consensual power exchange between adults. One takes control of the money, the gifts or the spending; the other hands it over and relishes every second. Findom Finder is where the two find each other, check each other out and agree the rules of their dynamic before anything is sent.
Members join as a findom or a sub, say on their profile what they want and get straight to the point. New to the words? Our guide to what findom is covers the basics, and our findom terms explain the rest.
More than 2,800 members, most in the USA and the UK
A dynamic can live entirely in messages or move to a cash meet, so distance matters exactly as much as you want it to.
Browse findommes if you want to serve, meet paypigs and finsubs if you want to be served, or see where members are on our findom by place page.
Private by design, strict where it counts
Findom Finder is built on the HubPeople platform. Behind every profile sit free ID checks with a badge, video checks with a moderator, a rating for every member, alerts when someone tries to move a chat off the site, and human support 24/7.
Other members see your username, never your real name or email, and your location shows only as your nearest town or city. See every tool on the features page, how each check works on our safety page and what VIP costs on our prices page.
Ten rules that keep the game fair
Findom works when both sides know where the lines are. These are ours, and they apply to every member.
Adults only
Members must be 18 or over. In Alabama, Mississippi, Nebraska and Wyoming the minimum is 21, as it is wherever the legal adult age is higher, and age assurance backs that up. Report any profile that looks underage straight away.
Be who you say you are
One profile per person, your own photos and a profile that tells the truth about you and your limits. A fake has no place here, on either side.
Consent and limits come first
Agree the rules of your dynamic before anything is sent: what, how much, how often and where the limits sit. Either of you can say no, pause or stop at any point, and that ends it.
A tribute is a gift
A tribute is something an adult chooses to give, never the price of a service. Nobody owes anybody money here, however the game is played.
Meeting, not selling
Findom Finder is a place to meet, not a shop. Price lists, adverts, payment links and links to other sites stay off your profile and out of your messages, and businesses cannot join.
Keep contact details off your profile
No surname, home address, exact location, workplace, number plate, phone number, web link, messenger ID, social media or email address. Our member terms ban them from profiles, and your privacy is better for it.
Blackmail stays a fantasy
Blackmail play is roleplay agreed between adults and nothing more. Real threats, or exposing anyone's name, photos, workplace or family, are never allowed. Real blackmail is a crime: the Theft Act 1968 sets a maximum of 14 years in prison for it in England and Wales. Report anyone who tries.
Never push anyone past what they can afford
Nobody asks for, or sends, money needed for rent, bills or food, and nobody borrows to send. If spending is getting away from you, read our guide to findom addiction.
Keep it legal
Findom here means money, gifts, tasks and attention between consenting adults. Anything outside that, or outside the law, does not belong on Findom Finder. Our guide to whether findom is legal covers the basics.
Report what feels wrong
Report the profile or the message, then block the member so they can no longer contact or see you. Real people on our support team are on hand 24/7.
Questions about Findom Finder
Who runs Findom Finder?
Findom Finder is built on the HubPeople platform and has been online since 2022. Members can reach a human support team 24/7 by chat or messaging, and the house rules on this page apply to every findom and every sub on the site.
How long has Findom Finder been around?
Since 2022. From the start it has done one job: bringing findommes together with the paypigs and finsubs who want to serve them, under the same promise it makes today, Findoms & Subs Meet Here.
How many members does Findom Finder have?
More than 2,800, most of them in the USA and the UK. Members join as a findom or a sub, and a profile is where you set out what you want, what you will and will not do and where your limits are.
Who can join Findom Finder?
Adults who want findom: findommes who take control, and the paypigs, finsubs and money slaves who want to give it up. The minimum age is 18, rising to 21 in Alabama, Mississippi, Nebraska and Wyoming. Individuals only, with one profile each.
Read up, then come and play
Guides and comparisons for both sides of findom.
Know the rules? Come and play
Join, choose your side and meet findoms and subs who play by them.
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