Is Throne for findom?
Throne delivers gifts to creators. Findom Finder is where findommes and subs find each other and set the rules.
Throne is a gift wishlist for creators; Findom Finder is a findom dating site. Throne suits a findomme who already has subs and wants gifts delivered without handing out her address. Findom Finder suits dommes and subs who still need to find each other, talk it through and agree the rules before anything is sent.
Findommes do use Throne: MEL Magazine wrote in 2022 about a findomme's client who started off buying gifts from her Throne wishlist. But Throne moves gifts, and Findom Finder is where people meet. They do different jobs.
| What you want to know | Findom Finder | Throne |
|---|---|---|
| What it is | A findom dating site for dommes and subs | A wishlist platform for creators |
| Running since | 2022 | 2021, TechCrunch reports |
| Finding each other | Profiles, search filters and match suggestions | You share your own wishlist link |
| Cash tributes | Never handled by the site | Cash Gifts must be tied to a real product, never an adult one |
| Content or services for gifts | Barred by our member terms | Barred in profile text |
| Your address | Only your nearest town or city shows | Fans never see where you live |
| On your phone | Any browser, and it installs to your home screen | Apps for iPhone and Android |
Throne's column comes from its help pages and app listings, and from TechCrunch for its start year. For the wider picture, see our findom site comparisons or are there any good findom sites.
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Throne says it welcomes adult creators. Three of its rules shape what a findomme can do there, and none of them names findom.
Throne's Cash Gifts have to be tied to a real physical product. In Throne's words they are "not a tip jar", so a listing for plain cash or money is not allowed. A tribute that is only money has no place on a Throne wishlist.
Cash Gifts cannot be used for NSFW or adult items, services, tips or donations. Throne says breaking those limits can get items removed or an account suspended.
Everything on a Throne wishlist must be a gift, never an exchange for goods or services. Profile text may not solicit or offer content for gifts, and profile images may not show BDSM scenes focused on domination or humiliation.
A wishlist does nothing until somebody wants to buy from it. Finding a domme worth spoiling, or a sub who will follow through, comes first, and that is the part Findom Finder is built for.
Meeting, not selling: wishlist links, payment handles and price lists stay off Findom Finder, on your profile and in your messages, because our member terms forbid soliciting money for services or sending members to another service.
See every tool on the Findom Finder features page, then meet findommes or paypigs and finsubs. Our findom terms explain tributes, sends and the rest of the slang.
Sending rather than receiving? Throne treats gifts as gifts, not purchases, and says a refund may not follow even when a report is valid, so read our findom scams guide first. Still looking for the domme or the sub? That search is where Findom Finder comes in.
Throne's rules on gifts and profiles never name findom. They do say every wishlist item must be a gift, Cash Gifts must buy a real physical product and never an adult one, and profile text may not offer content or services for gifts. Read them before you build a wishlist around tribute.
Throne calls itself a wishlist platform for creators, with apps for iPhone and Android. Findommes do share Throne wishlists, and subs buy from them as tribute without seeing the delivery address. It is a way to receive gifts, not a place to meet, so you still have to find each other first.
Not as plain money. Cash Gifts on Throne have to be tied to a real physical product, and listings for cash or money are not allowed. They cannot cover NSFW or adult items, services, tips or donations either, and the fan pays a service fee and a card fee on top of the item.
Throne says no. Fans never see where a creator lives, the delivery name or any delivery details, and they can gift anonymously. A fan's payment details are never shared with the creator either, and creators verify their identity with Throne before withdrawing money or receiving gift cards.
No. Findom Finder is for meeting, not selling, and its member terms forbid soliciting money for services or redirecting members to another service. Keep wishlist links and payment handles off your profile and out of your messages. Whatever is given, and how, is for the two of you to agree; the site never handles a tribute.
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